Tales from the Trenches

At Dialogue Partners, we try new public engagement practices all the time. We research and publish what works and what doesn't so that you can learn right alongside us!

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Don’t let these three myths doom your next presentation

Having an audience is a privilege. There are some common myths about making presentations that are very easy to fall into and that don’t serve your listeners well. Dip into my latest blog post and tell me if you have a myth or two to add to my list.

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Why listening is overrated (and what you should do instead)

Sometimes listening too much can make you question your beliefs and values. You’ve spent years developing a certain mindset. Does it make sense to turn that all around? You obviously have good reasons for feeling and believing what you do. I know I’m right about most things at this point in life. I don’t need the existential angst that comes with changing my mind. The best tactic in this scenario is to plan your rebuttal while the other person is talking. Wasting mental energy listening takes time from thinking of the next thing you want to say.

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How Our Dialogue Can Benefit From Silence

For how long are you comfortable with silence in a conversation? Bet it’s a lot shorter than you think. In my latest blog post I discuss the reasons silence is valuable in our lives and why public engagement professionals should cultivate it.

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5 holiday conversation starters that don’t involve COVID

You're sick of it. I'm sick of it. Can we talk about something other than the pandemic over the holidays?

We all deserve a break, but it can be tough to steer the conversation away from the one topic that's dominated our lives for what seems like forever. This post offers a how-to for setting boundaries and five types of conversation starters to put you on the path of more meaningful connections with family, friends, and acquaintances.

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